In today’s society it’s either put yourself first or get walked all over for most. I choose to put other’s feelings into consideration first, and then put myself first if they fail to do the same. People are so afraid of being wronged that they do it themselves without even noticing. I have in the past, but why waste energy on the negative “what ifs”. Love and be loved, but always make sure you aren’t putting yourself in a destructive situation. A little consideration goes so far.